Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Really? You need to know that...

"How do you feel about your sexual relationship?" This statement may derail our plans.

When we started this process, our Social Worker told us they would be asking a lot of questions, in depth questions, to help to get to know us. And with the extra 3 inches of paperwork I received yesterday at the first training date, we now have a better of understanding of exactly how in depth they are going. And hubby isn't comfortable with it one bit.

I'm trying to keep an open mind. He's trying to reconcile knowing his sexual feelings for me will be placed in a filing cabinet. I'm not sure what is bothering him more - that he has to tell a stranger about his feelings or that those feelings will be written down and placed beyond his control.

I can only hope this isn't a deal breaker. If it is, then this process is at an end.

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